Not so many people are familiar with the concept of sex mates.
Maybe it’s considered as a new one … and even if it looks as a non sense or something immoral, those people are actually good friends that accepted the truth about their connection … that they will always be friends, but they will never have a love story together … even if they like each other a lot … and the connection itself is great.
So … what they actually do … is that they are feeling good together … without having any expectation one from another … which again is weird … not being in the dogmatic standards of life.
It happens i have a fried Levi … which is an essayist that lives in the country side, near Amsterdam.
Elena, a family friend … which likes him a lot was visiting him from time to time.
They were good friends …. but also occasional sex mates, both of the being married.
Elena was not happy in her marriage, but wanted to experience something new all the time.
She believed in the concept of … the energy of beginning … and also taught Levi about this amazing trick.
Somehow they stoped seeing each other for a while, but seeing him 2 years later … they started to chat again.
“So my dear how are you?! How’s things?!”
Levi smiles and tells about his books of essays that he published … but Elena started to laugh:
“Hahaha! So … you still lose your time writing!
I remember you are an expert when it comes about theory … and i believe you still write about love stories … but how the hell you are writing about that … if you don’t experience it?!
I know what kind of relationship you have with your wife … and you have no new mistress”.
Levi smiles … agreeing his dear friend … replying …”Yes my dear! We need to remember the past we had together and do it one more time!”
But the truth is that Levi did not know how to open his heart … and became a great theoretician that forgot that in life … practice is also important.
We should experience everything … not just live life by connecting with the imaginary world from reading or writing books.
Elena opened his views about sexuality, the connection with the feminine sex, the beautiful friendship with a lady … then she left from his life.
Later … he forgot this episode and continued writing and reading books … without experiencing anything else.
He was … afraid … but was hoping that writing and reading will help him enter in the world of those amazing feelings.
Elena said the truth … and he knew it … but still … he could not start the life … for real.
She was a teacher for him … but later on he could not continue to experience life.
Probably today she could write a best seller about her experiences … but she does not have Levi’s talent to write.
Levi could write much better books … but he does not know to connect to the present moment as Elena is doing … so in the end the books are about an illusory world … something he still remembers when she opened his eyes.
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